Parents very often face problems in relationships with their growing children, there is no need to be afraid of this. In such cases, it is worth listening to the recommendations that experienced teachers and psychologists give to parents. Here are some of them:

You should not go to extremes in upbringing. In some families, there is an authoritarian method of upbringing, when the child is literally surrounded by various taboos and prohibitions. In other cases, on the contrary, parents (usually women) turn a blind eye to the whims and pranks of the child. Both of these types of relationships are a gross mistake. Respect the child, feel his needs, but at the same time set clear limits on what is allowed and what is not.

Scold children less. If they fail at something, do not be surprised, because the child is just learning everything. Recommendations for parents to develop various skills are as follows: do not focus on mistakes, do not repeat phrases such as “Everything is wrong with you ...”, “You can’t always ...” and the like. Such statements can cause the emergence of various complexes in the future. Encourage your child more often, praise him for his achievements, encourage him to new actions.

Listen to your child. Often a busy mother in the kitchen does not find 10-15 minutes to listen to the excited speeches of her child, and sends him to play. So know that each time your child will come to you less and less often to share something. Growing up, he will completely withdraw into himself, and then you will not learn from him even what you would like.

Cultivate confidence from an early age. Do not scare him with heights, water, spiders. The child should be confident in his strengths and character from an early age. This way he will be able to adapt faster in society and will achieve incredible success, going through life. Emphasize the best features of your child, this applies not only to appearance, but also to character. The following recommendations for parents on child development will be useful for every day:
If you suddenly have to scold a child for some misbehavior, never use expressions such as “You in general,” “Always you,” “Always you.” Tell him that he is always good, but today he did something wrong and not right.

Never part in a quarrel without making up after the conflict. Make up first, and then go about your business.
Instill in your child a love of home. Let him always return home with joy. Do not forget to say, when coming from somewhere: “How nice, warm and cozy it is here.”
For spiritual enrichment, read books out loud with your children more often, even with teenagers. A good book will bring you even closer together.
In arguments with children, sometimes give in to them. The child should know that sometimes he is right. So in the future he will learn to give in to other people, to accept defeats and mistakes.
Do not forget to always admire and encourage. Confidence is born when you are often told “I believe in you”, “You can do it”, “Amazing! You have achieved this”. But do not forget about criticism. Sometimes it must be combined with praise.
The most important life qualities that parents are simply obliged to instill in their child are resourcefulness, responsibility, respect. All the above-mentioned recommendations for parents will help to raise a strong, resilient personality. The child will devote a lot of energy to school, and the support and help of parents will be essential for him. Finally, here are a few more basic tips for upbringing:
When communicating with a child, do not undermine the authorities in which he believes. This is his choice.

Always be consistent in your decisions. Do not forbid doing what was previously allowed.

Do not demand what the child cannot do. If difficulties arise in some school subject, help to understand, and do not forget to praise for the slightest achievements.

Use physical affectionate contact more often, hug and kiss your child. Be an example to him in everything.

Make as few comments as possible.

Do not humiliate the child with punishments, use this only in extreme cases.