When communicating with a child, many parents do not even think about the undesirability of some questions.

And there is nothing good in this. Before asking a child about something, you need to think about the possible consequences.

You need to be sure that the question will be tactful, appropriate and will not put the child in an awkward position.

Unfortunately, sometimes mothers and fathers say the following dangerous phrases.

"Who do you love more - mom or dad?"

You should never ask a child such a question. The child probably loves his parents equally.

Do not force your son or daughter to make a choice between mother and father: this is fraught with the destruction of the family idyll and the emergence of a sense of guilt in the child.

"Why did you get a bad grade, and Vasya got a good grade?"

Parents have the right to ask only the first part of the question.

You should not compare a schoolchild with other children: this can lead to a drop in self-esteem in the child.

"Where have you been?

Why are you lying to me?"

Of course, the mother has the right to ask the child where he has been walking.

But accusing the child of lying is not worth it.

Firstly, the reproach may be unfair.

Secondly, the child may come to the conclusion that he is being watched.